What’s the first impression you want to give people?

I’m not concerned about the first impression I give people. I probably should be. Maybe a little effort on my part would make it easier for people to get to know the real “Cari”.

Let’s see…. I guess if I did care, I’d want to exude an initial air of confidence, reliability, and trustworthiness. People would know I could be counted on.

Maybe a pinch of approachability? Not too much though. I don’t want every random off the street coming up to me. Because, “people”.

I’d like to be viewed as determined and capable. One look would tell a person that whatever I put my mind to, I’ll get it done, no questions asked.

I’d give the impression that I follow the rules. I’m strict, but fair.

I’d display a caring and nurturing provider vibe with a hint of “fuck around and find out”. Do not take advantage of my compassionate nature and do not mess with my family.

I’d like to be viewed as wise beyond my years with an uncanny intuition. People would know that my advice was solid.

If all of these traits were apparent at first glance, it might make it easier for people to get to know me. Perhaps it wouldn’t take years to figure out who I really am, since my stronger, positive qualities would be on my sleeve. People wouldn’t be immediately turned off by my standoffish, contemplative look. Connections would be built stronger and faster….

But what would be the fun in that?